2nd Chances?

 

You don’t deserve a second chance…

2nd Chances?

Okay people, my gosh! Who the heck are these people who “THINK” they deserve a second chance. I mean seriously, they haven’t even earned the first one and already wanting a second. Do I believe in second chances, NO! If you get that opportunity consider yourself lucky. How can you go into a relationship with the mentality that you deserve or will get a second chance if you mess up. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN…the first one is just a freebie, a trial period, it doesn’t count.

Now I know some of you, at least one of you, are thinking he expects people to be perfect…or he must think he’s perfect, something to that affect. I have gotten second chances, I’ve gotten 3rd and 4th chances too. I’m not perfect, but I work toward being as perfect as I can be everyday. I am seeing too many relationships end because people are not taking it serious from the start. People this is life and you have feelings to consider. I’d rather you tell me from day 1 that it’s not exclusive…at least let me make the decision whether or not to put up with it or drop you right then. But nooooooo, we as people don’t do that. We play games and see how far we can get before we get busted and then plead for a chance to show the “real you”.

I’ll just be up front with you from day 1, how about that? Don’t even give me a 1st chance, I’ll just start at then 2nd!

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2 Comments

 
  1. Design Wannabe
    2009-10-29
    03:25:35

    Very well said! I like that you said people haven't even earned the first chance... never thought about it that way.. La.D.

     
  2. Reverend DoGood
    2009-11-19
    12:17:57

    Right on brother. The almighty is always watching. People do take people for granted. Keep doing you. We all need to forgive, but that don't mean give second chances.

     
 

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